wow.. and wow... totally inadequate words for the feelings from reading this on promises and vows, from mole
Too many good parts to excerpt, but here is the opening line:
"Yesterday was our 24th wedding anniversary."
For a wonderful take on the whole, please go read "Promises, Promises".
While you are there, you might want to check out - "My Official Buddhist Sermon" - it helped me in one of those rippling, tangent producing ways, during a few days where I couldn't figure out what to do with my anger.